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2021.12.05 02:11 EfficientInflation67 [Minor Spat] User is r/relationship_advice takes major umbrage to a commenter and proceeds to write a small essay attacking the commenter.
"I don't like it when you watch me when I work out."The response (-5)
"omg are you not attracted to me?"
This isn't even remotely close to acceptable insecurity levels.
Not everything is about how attractive you find her and frankly, using it like this is manipulative as fuck.
If you're on the fence about breaking up anyway, I'd just say take the leap and be free.
Right, so this isn't directed towards you exclusively but since you apparently consider yourself an arbiter of "acceptable insecurity", may I venture to ask what the longest successful romantic relationship you've been in is?This person then went on to write multi para responses after being dismissed.
I'm not saying your point of view is misfounded, but i do find myself wondering about the self appointed armchair quadrant. Noting also that single people have a lot more time on their hands for such a profession. Not that this is necessarily a bad thing. Indeed, i may be something of an advocate for single life which i suspect is grossly underrated.
I'm curious about what makes you so confident that you can categorically judge a person you don't know from a bar of soap, keeping in mind i haven't read the original post.
Something suggests to me that you weren't born female as well - as a woman, I'm not into muscles on dudes as a particular thing, but I have received the usual social conditioning, and I can certainly comprehend why being rebuffed when admiring a lover could result in a crestfallen amd dejected state in a person conditioned to be feminine.
Have you actually experienced that conditioning and if not, why do you think you are an expert on judging it?
I say this because what you describe as horrendously unacceptable sounds like a perfectly predictable result of normative conditioning, of which you have taken no account while laying the blame at the feet of a person you don't know and who can't defend themselves. You do this quite vehemently which is interesting because it suggests there's some kind of cathartic payoff for you in writing off someone you don't know at all and condemning them to be discarded. You don't appear to have any capacity for demonstrating any empathy towards that person. I find that curious. Do you feel good when you tell people they don't know to reject others?
And how much experience in successful relationships, as opposed to rejecting people for flaws, do you base these convictions on?
After all, "fuck em" seems like it doesn't take much effort, compared to nuanced consideration, but it won't tend to sustain relationships (remembering that all humans have flaws) as opposed to just ending them.
Do you really have no comprehension of the described insecurity (this post only) and why?
It just seems to me that a lot of people in this sub enjoy authoritatively giving the figurative boot to people tgey don't know from a bar of soap while it remains very unclear if they have any capacity for a genuinely functional relationship themselves. Condemning human beings doesn't take mych effort. A successful relationship requires a lot of self awareness and capacity for consideration.
I myself don't have those skills at present and i know it, but then again I don't casually instruct people to end their relationships.
What are your honest thoughts about your own relationship achievements that you feel give you such authority to judge others? To me, a person who is balanced and confident has no need to assassinate the character of other people, including flawed individuals whose behaviour involves mistakes.
Specifically, what experience gives you authority to be an expert over what "insecurity" is or isn't "acceptable" in a woman in a relationship? Just curious.
Wow, I can't believe I even read all of that to begin with.Verbose response from the commenter
I'm not going to answer, not only because it is none of your business what my gender or relationship status are, though they aren't that hard to find, but mostly because I don't feel I have to justify myself and my opinion to you. I don't have to give you credentials and references like I'm applying for a fucking job, what the hell?
My feedback stands. Do with it as you will.
What an "unacceptably insecure" reply.submitted by EfficientInflation67 to SubredditDrama [link] [comments]
I suggest you aren't equipped with what it takes to make categorical snap judgements on the acceptability of a human being's fears her partner's rebuff may cause her to fear shebis unattractive.
I've asked what you think makes you cut out to have the experience to act like such an authoritative arbiter to cut down another person like that.
As I expected, you have offered nothing.
As a result, I suggest you actually have no such credentials and I would venture it's highly unlikely you have experience of a long term mutually loving relationship where human flaws are worked with.
I also suggest, although i may be wrong, that you have little direct experience of typical female conditioning the average woman is subjected to for decades and how it could easily result in the described insecurity.
As such, judging such insecurity as beyond the realm of acceptability comes off to me as misogynistic and even bordering on incel-like - whatever your gender, the signs of someone who's spent far more of their waking life judging people they don't know on reddit, rather than doing the work of forging through the hardest parts of sustaining connections with other flawed human beings vs throwing them away on a screen.
You're a human; you have flaws.
Why isn't your own behaviour unacceptable? Why shouldn't you be thrown away just like this woman?
You are entitled to your opinion but that doesn't make it acceptable according to your own snap judgement over a screen mentality.
You sound like you're pathologically lacking in empathy and, as I said, whatever your gender, you sound like you have a bias against women. Referring to behaviour that is pretty obviously a result of feminine conditioning as beyond acceptable demonstrates this.
I wouldn't be surprised if you did turn out to be making these judgements while living in your parents basement and if you have an untreated or poorly treated mood disorder.
The fact that you think your opinion of snap condemnation can't be even be questioned appears to speak for itself.
Try getting some experience in loving human relationships that last, which certainly involves dealing with insecurities (you obviously have them yourself), before you position yourself as some kind of all seeing judge who can direct people you don't know to throw away people you don't Kno.
This could go for everyone like you in this subreddit who generally use subs like this as catharsis because it pleases them to condemn people and makes them feel powerful to push for a discard, when if we looked at the reality, the reason many such people frequent a subreddit like this is because they have little satisfying relationship going on in their own life.
Nothing wrong with being single if that's the case, but the fact you think you are able to condemn female insecurity as completely unacceptable reeks of incel-like cultural norms and you sound toxic yourself.
As i said this comment is not exclusive to you. You are entitled to your opinion and i am entitled to call it out as sounding toxic and bulging at the seams with your own pathology. It is normal for human beings to have empathy when others are in pain. You have no such reserve, it appears. When human beings in society have no empathy, it's not too much of an exaggeration to say terrible things happen to me in society.
Your comment to me is a sign of that.
Don't take it personally unless you want to be unacceptably insecure, hey.
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